Do you ever wonder why certain things just don’t happen for you…
You can’t seem to meet your ideal partner…
You can’t seem to break out of your financial stress…
Or you just can’t get your body as healthy, fit and strong as you know it could be?
No matter how hard you try, no matter how much action you take…SOMETHING keeps blocking you?
If this sounds familiar, read on.
What most people don’t realize is that there are active hidden blocks within us that we MUST learn to identify and dismantle or they will keep getting in the way over and over again.
Here are the top 3 hidden blocks that may be getting in YOUR way:
1. Is that really your desire?
Having desires that aren’t authentic to us is a major hidden block. Over our life span we tend to take on familial or cultural desires, without realizing they aren’t really coming from our soul, but rather a survival instinct to fit in. Perhaps we want to look a certain way because we adopted a desire from the media. Perhaps we are holding out for a certain life partner because our parents projected to us a type of mate that was “suitable” for us at a young age. Perhaps we think if we don’t earn a 6 figure income that there’s something wrong with us and we just won’t ever be happy.
Most of our adult desires stem from unmet childhood needs. One way to determine if a desire is coming from our divine innermost self is to measure our degree of NEED for it. If we are desperately attached to a desire, chances are it may be a false desire. Our true desires have an expansive feel to them as if they are already ours and easeful to create. There is anticipation and perhaps even a bit of nervousness but no inner pressing, pushing or forcing around them. We feel a fullness and faith simply with the desire in our heart, well before it comes into physical fruition. Release or redefine your desires that are not true and direct you precious efforts to those that are!
2. Fear of getting what you want.
There are 2 levels of fear, fear that we know consciously know we have and fear that we don’t know we have. Conscious fear is a block in and of itself, but at least we can see it and work with it! Unconscious fear, on the other hand, could be sabotaging your dreams without you even realizing. If there is a true desire that is continuously elusive to you, ask yourself:
What might I be afraid of happening if I actually receive this?
What could I lose if I manifest this desire?
What are the potential costs or consequences of getting what I want?
These questions will illuminate your unconscious fears that keep a thick wall between you and your soul’s desires. Face these fears and the wall will dissolve!
3. Lies, lies, lies.
Your belief system could be infested with lies about your worth, your abilities to manage or your safety and security. Most of us end up with a collection of limiting beliefs in one or more of these areas. Until we tease out the stories that we have agreed to as true (which are not) these stories will continue to determine how we experience our reality. For instance if, say you just can’t meet a partner that is a good match for you ask:
Do I truly believe I am worthy of a loving and devoted partner?
Do I believe I can manage intimacy in a thriving, mature and harmonious relationship?
Do I truly believe I will be safe and secure in my ideal relationship?
If any of these made you squirm, even a little, you will want to look at the limiting beliefs you have and learn to rewire you brain accordingly so you feel 100% worthy, capable, safe and secure getting what you desire!
Because you deserve your heart’s desires,
PS. Stay tuned for an exciting, collaborative project I am putting together for you coming out in September!! It’s a NEW powerful, free resource designed to help you break through your hidden blocks for good!!