The Secret Shortcut to “Get What You Want”

The Secret Shortcut to “Get What You Want”


Are you working tirelessly to get what you want in life?

Working hard on your personal development, at your job and in your relationships?

It can be downright exhausting sometimes to strive for your desires, right?


What if I told you there was a secret shortcut to get what you want that the most successful people on the planet use every day?

In fact, you may have heard of this shortcut before but never really realized just how much time, energy and money this ‘lil trick will save you on the road to your deepest desires.


This secret catapulted me from sick, single and jobless to fully free and thriving.

Applying it in my life keeps me financially abundant and deeply fulfilled. It allows me to sleep in whenever I want, go to yoga every day, homeschool, travel, own my own home, save for my future and contribute to the lives of thousands of people doing what I love and much, much more!

This secret is so important that before I reveal it to you I implore you to prepare something to take note of it right now – pull out your iPhone, journal or a sticky note.


Here’s what this simple secret is:

The fastest, easiest way to get what you want is to spend a lot of time with or around people who already have what you want.

You’ve probably heard the theory that we become a combo of the 5 people we spend the most time with, right?

Well that applies to what you want too! Spending a lot of your time with at least 5 people who already have what you want primes you to have it as well.



Because beliefs, thoughts, actions and ideas are all as contagious as the giggles. Through energetic osmosis we take on the inner and outer patterns of those around us most.

Our brains (miraculous as they are) are built to make us as much like our tribe members as possible so we aren’t ousted and left to die…it’s primitive survival wiring.


Nowadays, we don’t need to share a cave with these 5+people.

We can commune with them online, by phone or even through studying their work and creative expression as much as possible. For instance, reading this post brings the two of us closer in wiring!

Of course, communing in person has the most intense effect on our lives so it’s important to build our relationship proximity over time.

That’s why people with mentorship or coaches have tendency to thrive. It’s why people with masterminds and study/support groups get results.



It doesn’t mean you have to get rid of people in your life that don’t have what you want, but you may want to temporarily limit your exposure to them while you are rewiring to get what you want.

Doing so will eventually up-level those people to where you are too!


This concept isn’t one side either.

You have something very unique and special within you – a gift, skill, idea, wisdom etc. that those you are called to commune with require as well.

Lead these new relationships from that part of you…giving from there has the highest ROI.


So here’s your homework: who has what you want? Who is doing what you want to do? List way more that 5 people so that you can reach out to as many new tribe members as possible and then cultivate those relationships to take on the wiring you need to get what you want!


Way more fun that struggling and working hard to do it all on your own right?


Making your desires easy,

Bec xoxox

PS. If I have created something in my life that you want in your life, find out how coaching together will rewire your brain to have it too! Apply here to find out more!


The #1 Action to Successfully Create Your Desires

The #1 Action to Successfully Create Your Desires


Imagine for a moment: You wake up tomorrow and your deepest desire is finally realized.

You’ve hit your income goal, you’re in the arms of your yummy life partner, you actually feel amazing and energized in your body…

You were clear on your desire, clear on what it looked and felt like and used a reliable strategy to CREATE it.

SUCCESS, right? Triumph, celebration!  You’d jump out of bed and do a happy dance, throwing your fist in the air with a big fat “YES!”


Earlier this week I had one of those “YES” mornings!  I successfully created the sale of my house… a result that gives me an entirely new level of freedom to start travel-schooling my daughter Meelah.

I knew what it would look and feel like – receiving full price, awesome and friendly buyers, moving out at the perfect time. Check, check and check.

Did I know when or how it would happen? No! But thanks to my own reliable desire creation strategy, the INSPIRED Creative Process, I trusted in it’s perfect unfoldment.


Looking back at the weeks leading up to this moment of success, I was reminded of something… an important action that any powerful Creator knows about and uses diligently.

After a year with my house on the market, the sale finally happened the moment I took this very specific action.


Curious what it is?


It’s stepping into a powerful place of creation called the “edge.” The fringe of your comfort zone.

The weeks leading up to the sale, I made some new decisions that nudged me well out of my newest comfort zone (comfort zones grow as you do):

*I lovingly released a romantic relationship that no longer served – AHHH!

*I started homeschooling my daughter – OOOmmmmm…

*I enlisted a fantasy fiction writing mentor to keep me flirting with my edge and help me produce some delicious writing – (DEEP BREATHS)


Whammo, house sold.

After a year of open houses.

See, my desire was waiting for me to step into my new “edge.”  As soon as I did it, it came to fruition.


So, where is your latest edge?  What actions have you not taken yet that make you feel just a little nervous, that make your palms a bit sweaty and your heart skip a beat? THOSE are the actions that will unlock your deepest desires time and time again!


Holding your sweaty hand in my sweaty hand,

Bec xoxo

PS. If you would like to learn about how the INSPIRED Creative Process works and how it will help YOU create your deepest desires, apply for a *free* Discovery Session with me here.

The REAL Reason You Have Desires + Why You MUST Create Them!

The REAL Reason You Have Desires + Why You MUST Create Them!


Ever feel BAD for having desires? Guilty, selfish, undeserving?

Is there a tiny voice in your head that says things like:


I guess I don’t really need THAT much money…

I should just be grateful for the relationship I have. (shrug)

My dream career is too big for me to create and manage…forget it.


Lean in here: Your deepest, most authentic desires – to travel, to create art, to make money, to find love – ALL of them – have a very important purpose. A purpose that goes well beyond the confines of your own life and affects the whole of consciousness.


Your desires are a big deal. To all of us.

See, desires are DIVINE. They do not come FROM us randomly, they come THROUGH us by design…from a governing force much, much greater and more sophisticated than us.

This force (God, the subconscious, the quantum field, the Universe, Divine Intelligence – whatever you want to dub it), shoots you with “desire arrows.” Kind of like Cupid.



Because desires act like comic carrots that dangle in front of us and propel us forward to EVOLVE.

Our desires motivate us to expand and reach, to learn and develop, to take new action and release blocks, to become the biggest, brightest versions of ourselves!

The purpose of a desire is not even related to the desire itself – it’s actually about who we become in the process of creating our desire that is of universal value.

What’s more is that once we successfully create our desires, there are other ones waiting for us. There is always more to become, to emerge into and to give back.

So the more you get what you desire, the more growing and evolving you end up doing…and ultimately the more you inspire others to evolve.

These “evolved” versions of us better serve the entire planet: they have more capacity to make the world a better place.

In consistently creating what we want we are advancing our entire species.

And in that continuous, collective progress is where we find relief and fulfillment in our souls. 


So damn straight – you deserve to create that financial freedom you want! And you getting that soul mate will help us all!

I teach people the INSPIRED Creative Process so they have a surefire strategy to reach their desires – one after another. When we know the exact steps to close our “desire gap” over and over again we end up speeding up our personal evolutionary journey – not only to we get to have and experience all of what’s most important to us but we get to keep expanding into our highest selves and positively impacting others without getting stuck.

So what desire have you been shirking? What have you been feeling guilty about wanting? NO MORE – Create that reality for yourself and everyone wins!

Much love,



PS. Curious about how the INSPIRED Creative Process will work to get you YOUR desires? Apply for a free Discovery Session with me here:)